But I can’t show you photos until August 5.
About 5PM July 30, I got a tip Sheryl Lee Ralph and Sen Vincent Hughes were renewing their vows on their 20th Anniversary of their wedding. My friend told me the wedding would be at 6PM sharp.
In the morning I noticed a tent going up at the top of the Rocky Stairs and thought, “Hmm… something’s happening.” So when I got a tip that Sheryl Lee Ralph and Senator Vincent Hughes were renewing their vows, I knew exactly where to be.
That photo perch? My old faithful on the Washington Monument across the street from the stairs.
I was quietly freaking out and texting two close friends who have known Sheryl and Sen Vincent Hughes as long as I have, about 14 years, they’re Philanthropic Philadelphians, the play-by-play—“Recognize this guest?” “Guess the song!” Then, cue the moment: Diana Ross’ Ain’t No Mountain High Enough blaring as Sheryl, in a stunning gown with a jaw-dropping train, walked up the Rocky Stairs. Vincent met her halfway, like Prince charming, and up they went, together. Another iconic moment on the Rocky Stairs.
I clocked the guest list, clocked the no-shows, took it all in. Then I went home, ate dinner like it was a normal Wednesday, and started sending photos to media outlets. I’m even prepping for a Fox 29 segment, my first in years since stage fright kicked in after one tiny on-air flub in 2019. But for Sheryl and Vincent? Totally worth facing the lights again. (I occasionally have done interviews, but not on a regular basis.)
Normally I would wait to appear on TV before I post a video, but I saw someone post one from inside the museum, and I thought I’d better get mine out there, but without a lot of detail. Then this happened: In a Barbara Howard dignified, firm voice:
Sheryl asked me to archive my photos because Vogue has the exclusive — and while I usually wouldn’t comply (hello, it was a very public wedding on the Rocky Stairs!), I made an exception out of respect.
Normally, I’d stand my ground — I photograph public fashion, public events, and no, I don’t need permission when it’s in a public space. But hey, it’s Sheryl. And it’s Vogue. So this time, I hit pause… temporarily.
I can’t wait to see her new ring!!
In an interview she did with Stephen Colbert last month, she told him about renewing her wedding vows on her 20th Anniversary. “I’m hoping that I get to have the longest veil in that ‘Rocky Steps’ history,” Ralph said, referring to the 72 stairs leading up to the Philadelphia Museum of Art, where the 1976 boxing drama was filmed.
And a veil isn’t the only bridal accessory she wants to rock for the occasion, which has been two decades in the making. “I need a new ring too. I need all of that,” she added.
P.S. I had already sent the photos to my wire service hours before the Vogue request came in (whoops). I politely asked them to hold off, but the toothpaste was already out of the tube. What I can control? Fulfilling the flurry of photo requests that came flooding in after the fact.
Look, I’ve been in this biz long enough to know how to handle sensitive moments. But this wasn’t one of them. I was in plain sight, surrounded by tourists and guests snapping pics, with police nearby — nobody told me to stop. It was a celebration in a very public place.
And honestly? I’m just putting this on record because, well… my video had already hit 50,000 views before I hit archive.
Socially Yours, HughE
One reply on “Sheryl Lee Ralph Marries on the Art Museum Steps”
U remind me of Truman Capote! Thatś a compliment!